Relationship Battles

Learn to say "am sorry". Sorry and being the first to try in calming down the heat of any battle or quarrel in your relationship.

 A serious relationship can't be heaven and sweet all the time. There are bound to be misunderstandings, fight, and harsh use of words on each other. Above all these, saying sorry can heal a lot of pains.

This is for both male and females to learn. Some ladies want the men to always be at fault and be the first to apologize same goes to the men. I say if you cherish what you have you will want to keep it intact by being the first to mend the wounds. I learnt this from experience too.

Every relationship has its own unique foundation, from sweetness, pleasure, pains, mysteries, and more. The foundation is the beginning of how it all started. How did you meet your spouse or partner? When and where? What was that special motive that sparked your ability to accept each other during dating and courtship period? Both parties should realize this and work towards it. This can help in time of difficulties and and attempts of separation or divorce.

The main point is, you should know where you are coming from. If there are children involved, what will be the best decisions to ensure they don't suffer from everyday fighting and quarreling, or divorce and separation battles?

As adults, some of us have gone through one stage or the other in life on how our parents handled their relationship. Also orphans have their stories and experience to tell.

Relationship battles are crucial and should be handled carefully to avoid it ending with pains and hurts beyond repairs.

Everyone has his or her own side of  story to tell about this topic. I would love to hear your points of view!!